There is always major conversation on how women can't find the "man of their dreams". It could be that you are not dreaming up the right man, or that you are not the "woman of their dreams".
I think that as women it is important to truly evaluate the list that we have made up for our ideal man and possibly makes some changes in a few areas.
Keeping Up's own, Shyah, pointed out that maybe we should literally make a list. One list of the things that we want and another list of the things that we are willing to compromise off of that 1st list.
Then after that see if your ideal guy changes? See if some of the things you were looking for might have been things that you do not really need.
After you are done with your list, make a final list of the things that you have come up with that you truly need in a mate.
Finally, evaluate yourself and see if you have the characteristics that match this ideal mate of yours.
If you are not what he needs than it will never work! We must work on ourselves before we require someone else to. (The bold area is the key to truly find what you are looking for...be that person they are looking for)
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The most essential part of that piece was what bold at the bottom. In order to attract the kind of mate that you're looking for, you need to striving towards being the kind of person that you want to be. A mate should be complementary to the COMPLETE person you already are.
Hello,
I feel like Dorothy from The Wizzard Of Oz. I was visiting RiPPa's site and landed here. I am new to blogging and it appears as if I've landed in OZ. You have a wonderful site. I am building a favorites list and I think I have arrived.
I agree with all that you said. It is a great idea to make a list. And do ask yourself what you are and aren't willing to put up with. When we take that deep look at ourselves, we need to make another list, what am I and what am I not, willing to change. All in all, every now and then one of those miracles happens. You know the one that throws the right ingredients in the pot and it makes a perfect soup.. Nice Dreams lol.
@CareyCarey: I am glad that you stopped by and I hope that you come back to continue to Keep up! :)
@M.L.: I think that it is a great idea to make a list for ourselves. So often people dont take the time to really evaluate who they are and where they need to be!
this is a good site. that is one of the things i learned too, that developing yourself is essential to finding your man.
@Penelope: Thank you! I am glad that you enjoyed it...I hope you continue to Keep Up. :)
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