You Can Kill Them With Looks...but Kindness Will Work As Well...

I got the secret to getting almost anything that you want! You ready....

Kill everyone around you with so much kindness that the Universe has no option but to return the favor back to you. Really...it works!

If you go around being nice (extremely nice) to everyone, then you will see a few things happen:

1. You might make that persons day

2. In return your day will be made in some way

3. Someone might give you something just because you were nice. (example: I let someone into a party last night that was not on my list just because they smiled at me. The assholes were sent away and I evil laughed at them out loud)

4. People will want to look out for you just because you are nice. Let's say there were two people up for a position, the nicer person, or more liked person, will probably get the position.

5. People will enjoy being around you and you will be invited to everything!

6. Try being nice to someone who is an ass to you or has done you wrong...it will kill them more then you getting an attitude with them. Trust me I do it all the time with people that have done me wrong. They can't sleep at night...I know it! (another evil laugh)

WARNING: Being nice does not mean being ran over. The "nice" I am talking about is simple acts of kindness, and being careful about rubbing people the wrong way. Honestly, if you are a nice person, when you make a mistake and have one of those funky days, people forgive you.

Life is a simple game...what you put out is what you get back!

Be nice for a day straight...and watch how different that day turns out. Be nice everyday...and watch all the balls fall in your court.


Next time you are in line for a club, you want something for free, you want your boss to consider you for a position, you want to be invited to an exclusive party...trust me being nice is your ticket in!

-The Socialite

It's just the way the game is played ...

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3 comments:

Tyra said...

I sooo love this post and am glad that it came directly to my email, because it made my day! What you call being genuinely nice I refer to as courteousness, (which is a practice of which we have lost sight), but it's all the same. I personally think that if everyone in the world tried to mindfully be nice to at least one other person EVERYDAY, the world would be a much happier, more peaceful place. So thanks again, for putting this out there!

The Socialite said...

No problem Tyra! I am glad that you enjoyed the post. I agree with you.. the world would be such a better place. We walk around these days not caring about a soul but ours. The change starts with us tho ;)

only1trulady said...

This is a beautiful post and so very true. You never know what the next person is going through, and a little kindness goes a long way!

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