5 Reasons Women Should Slow Down When Dating

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"5 Reasons Women Should Slow Down When Dating"

Woman are always in a rush to declare someone their “man” or “boyfriend”. After a few dates, we quickly determine that the guy has everything we are looking for, and immediately go on a mission to make things official. Why are we in a rush?

Could it be that once we meet a guy and think he’s one of the “good ones” we have to lock him down first before someone else does? Is it out of fear that we might not run across another “good one” again? Do we think it is the only way to get them to be exclusive with us? I know what it is, we can’t wait to become official so we can declare to every other woman that “HE IS MINE”. Maybe we simply don’t want to be alone.

If the answer is yes to any of the above questions or statements, then we are seeking titles for the wrong reasons and maybe way too fast.

What would happen if we stopped trying to quickly give our “relationships” titles, and we spent more time getting to know the person and having fun?

More often men date with no real expectations at first, so it allows them to simply have fun getting to know the person or just enjoying the moments in general. Women on the other hand want to make someone their boyfriend or man so fast, that they are no longer even concentrating on the person. It is like they determine as much information as they need to know on the first date, and he is already “the one”.


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17 comments:

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Sometimes haste makes waste. If we don't slow down on the dating stage, then we might regret the relationship that we made.

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Women aren't the only one guilty of this tendency in dating. Men are often doing these things to. There should be a clear communication of what each one expects in a date, whether it is a long term or short term romance.

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Just go with the flow. There's no need to hurry things. All you need to do is to find the right person, know him well and test his perseverance. Online dating is a long process so you have to be patient if you want to have the best relationship ever.

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One of the best advice I heard was to take it slow and enjoy the ride. Surely, there is no rush for the two people when dating. The best course is to get to know one another.

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Most women seek security in a man more than anything else. To put it more bluntly, if they're seriously after that, they have to present themselves to be something more than just a single date.

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Women really make some of these mistakes unknowingly and think they are just normal. Slowing down will take most of the pressure of and can make dating more fun with better results.

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Women should learn how to wait, have a high standards for men, and stop thinking that the guys they're currently dating are their prince charming. They should evaluate the guys first and look for the one they truly deserve. They must never ever settle for less.

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Gosh, you are sooo right. I think the reason is that women think of it. Men want, men do. Girls want, girls think/dream/discuss with girlfriends. Why? Ask any girl and she will bring up loads of info, but I think it's just hesitation and rejection fear.

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I admire your topic. It's indeed an interesting one. As for my opinion some women who rush things will just end up being disappointed or in some point being hurt. Women should be patient enough since having a boyfriend is not a competition. I do agree with the comments above. There's no need to rush things specially dating because dating someone is fun and all you have to do is to enjoy it.

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Most of the dating sites reviews I'm reading, they've suggested several ways on how you could make the first date work and impress the date you got. It's beneficial in a sense, cause it gives the to-dos list for you during dates.

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